My sister had become so obsessed with her new boyfriend that she began to disregard me and our elderly parents and skirt her responsibilities at home. She was becoming disgustingly selfish, all about herself, was unloading her work on me, became increasingly reckless, increasingly mentally unstable, and was spiraling down a dark path of alcoholism, anorexia, and drug use... she was becoming a hazard to herself, a burden to her boyfriend, and a worry to my parents. I needed to shake her up, and the Frenemy Candle fit the bill. I lit this candle, and in the following few days things escalated in order to hit a critical point. She continued to drive drunk, refused an intervention, crashed into a snow bank, and finally, after finding out that her boyfriend had feelings for me, flew off the handle in a fit of rage and stormed into the house and proceeded to fake a suicide in front of our mother who has cancer. Long story short, she ended up in a psych ward, lost her boyfriend, missed 2 weeks of work, was put on medication and started on a path of sobriety and self-reflection. During her 2 weeks of sobriety, she said she could finally look within and realize all the hurt she had caused others. This candle worked exactly as intended and has incredible, long-lasting effects. Exactly as stated, there was "a grand influence and freeze and stalling of everything in your target’s life until they reflect on how they act, and fix it." Can't recommend this highly enough.
